RCMP
Internet Safety - Be Aware!
Better than a library, the Internet is a virtual storeroom of knowledge. Along
your route you will visit websites, check into chat rooms, pop into forums and
bookmark your favourite sites along the way. You will learn a new computer
language such as LOL, (laugh out loud), that Spam does not always come in a can
and that trolls don’t live under a bridge in your fairy tale books from your
childhood.
Because cyberspace is such a large virtual world there is so much to experience
and you don’t even have to leave your chair. You can use the search engines or
links to other websites to find all you need. You will be treated to inside
looks at famous places, learn about current events, shop for a bargain. You can
even start-up a new business or form an email group.
Children are believers in magic and make believe. They will easily walk
off a path with a stranger in search of a lost puppy or kitty cat. They are
vulnerable from every angle, and as a parent you are responsible to keep them
as safe as possible if they use the Internet.
Learn how to keep your children safe on the Internet. So many parents say
"my child would never meet anyone from the Internet" ....yet the reality is
that so many kids are looking for something more ... someone more ... more love
... more attention ... and when a stranger tells them how wonderful they are
and how happy they can make them ... don't be fooled! Your kids will believe
them.
Internet Safety Tips for Your Children
Talk openly with your child; many youngsters mature a lot faster than
their parents give them credit for. Really listen to your child, show that not
only do you expect to have respect, but that you have respect for them as well.
Make a game about sitting with them while they are on the Internet. Learn how to
watch their activities without overdoing it.
Keep the computer in an open area, like the living room or kitchen. Don’t allow
your child a place where they can have full privacy. Glance at the screen every
time you pass the computer without slowing down and being obvious, unless you
see something very objectionable.
Use the parental control software available – password protect your
computer.
Check out the email folders often. Also look for additional folders the child
can make and store their emails in. Don’t be deceived by the titles of the
folders – one parent reported that a file labeled Pet Pictures, turned out to
be undesirable photos.
Your child uses computers at school, friend’s houses and at the library. Find
out what safeguards are in place on these computers that will keep your
child away from predators.
Remember your child is a victim, not a willing participant. If you find
your child has been targeted, call the RCMP immediately. The guilty one
is the human predator that picked your child for various reasons to prey upon.
Tell your children to never arrange for a one-on-one meeting with anyone they
meet online.
Never upload or post photos without parental approval.
Never give out personal information over the Internet, including phone
number, address, first or last names, schools that are attend or sports teams
you are on.
Anyone can be anybody on the Internet and there are no
repercussions. Do not believe all the hard-luck stories and keep your wits
about you when you surf the net.
If your child receives adult content emails, what should you do?
Check the laws with your local RCMP detachment.
Should I just lock my child off the Internet?
For all the bad things that can happen to a child online, the Internet also
holds good things. Your child can learn about the world, they can explore
countries they have only heard about, pick up pen pals for direct mail contact,
and learn about subjects they are studying in school. Restricting them is not a
good idea, but talking with your children and monitoring their moves will help
to keep them safe and informed. And as a parent, that is your job.
Your child’s safety is paramount.